Cut It’! Toke Makinwa’s Girl Rule in Her latest TokeMoments Vlog

There are a ton of different kinds of toxic friendships, but according to experts here are some general signs that it’s time to make a change:

— You feel drained after hanging out with them.
— You don’t like how you act when you’re around them.
— You need to psyche yourself up to hang out with them.
— The balance is way off. Either they don’t reciprocate your effort or vice versa.
— They make you feel bad about yourself, pressure or guilt-trip you, or you guys fight a ton.
— You just don’t like or respect them anymore.

Every situation and relationship is unique, so there’s no one right way to approach this. But here are some general guidelines from the experts:

— You should set new boundaries if your main hangup with your friendship is that it’s too demanding, but you really want to make things work.

— You should let the friendship fade slowly if you two are growing apart and the lack of investment in your friendship feels mutual.

— You should formally end the friendship if you and your friend aren’t on the same page and you suspect they don’t see the end coming.

In some situations you may have a gut feeling which one is the right (and mature) way to go about your specific situation,

Listen to what Tope Makinwa put on her Vlog about Friendships !!!!